“SOME VERY EARLY SKETCHES!”

…………I used to draw as early as I can remember. It was my most favorite thing to do….probably as soon as I could hold a pencil or a crayon….I used to lay on the kitchen floor and sketch while my mother was doing her work….walking around me. I sketched all the time in kindergarten, and I was told I hoarded the crayons….yep, it sounds like me! I can remember how disappointed I was when I went on to 1st and 2nd grade, because there was less and less time to draw, and more and more time on subjects I cared less about. I wasn’t a great student in arithmetic, spelling and reading which were the subjects that were focused on the most. I wasn’t good at memorizing….I remember we would sit on the floor in a circle with reading books in hand, and we had to take turns reading aloud. It was torture for me. I hated reading, and really didn’t read many books on my own until I was much older. Little did anyone know that I had a degree of dyslexia, and these subjects were very difficult for me. To this day I always have to check myself with numbers…writing a check or writing a date, and as many of you know giving a style number! Drawing was my sanctuary. I had excelled in other subjects, but some were so difficult no matter how much I studied I just couldn’t get a handle on them……I always had to go to summer school for math, but the teachers were much more focused and patient with us as individuals, and I did much better….not great but well enough to move on….I had the biggest collection of coloring books and crayons. I also had to have the biggest set of crayons that came out……the box of 64 colors was the best thing that ever happened! Absolutely no one was allowed to use my crayons or color in my books. If my mother let one of my cousins use them I would have a fit! She soon learned that sharing them was not something I wanted to do. They could play with any of my toys, but not my crayons or coloring books……I used to spend hours at my desk drawing and coloring. I started adding fashion sketches very early on. The ones above were probably when I was 9 or 10. I know the ones to the extreme right and the gown with the lace top and swatch were early. My style of sketching became more sophisticated as I got older. I started looking at the illustrations in catalogs my mother got, and tried to copy the style until it came naturally to me. The styles however were my ideas……Recently I came across a very old black portfolio that I thought was my final portfolio from Parsons. That was the portfolio all of the senior students worked on for our job interviews, but when I opened it….it wasn’t the portfolio. Instead it had many of these old sketches I had done so many years ago. I was happy to find them. I hadn’t seen them for years and years. It also had finished sketches from Parsons, but none of them were from my final portfolio. It’s got to be somewhere????? I will just have to keep searching…….I remember a long time ago showing these early sketches to Jac. The two of us laughed and laughed at the descriptions I wrote on the earliest ones [only the one to the bottom right has a description]. They were very corny, and I stopped doing it!!! I signed my name “lou”!!!!!on the early ones, and wisely dropped that as I got older too…It was pretty pretentious for a kid………Looking at these brought back lots of memories…….Early on I made up my mind that this is what I was going to do. I always got support, and when my Uncle Paul, who was in the fashion business, told my parents he though I was very talented, that sealed the deal. I remember in junior high school when i was 13 I started to see Broadway shows with my best friend Bobby, and for a while I wanted to design sets and costumes. I did lots of sketches of stage sets and the costumes the players would wear……. Bobby was going to write the shows and I was going to design them! Eventually Bobby decided to do something else with his life, and became a psychologist! I guess it isn’t such a giant leap being a playwright and a psychologist! I even thought for a short while of becoming an architect, but I soon found out there was a LOT OF MATH involved….not for me! I came back to my first love…. fashion……very little math needed! My high school friends were envious of me [in a good way], that I knew exactly what I wanted my life’s work to be, while they were going off to college without a clue and struggling as to what they wanted to do with their lives. We would get together at each others houses and discuss our life’s paths. I was always determined, and very focused……I never had any doubts, and put all of my energies into being successful…….Off I went to Parsons School Of Design, a very naive young boy, but knowing somehow my life would change forever.

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“OUR FIRST OFFICIAL DATE”

……………..I’m pretty sure I’ve posted this photo of Jac and me before, but since it is one of my most favorite pictures of us I thought it would be a good follow up to the bearded me……the non bearded me as per Jac’s request!!!! I never get tired looking at this photo. It’s one of the many at my bedside…..Jac and I had been dating for quite awhile by the time this picture was taken, but no one knew. We were very good about keeping our private lives, which wasn’t easy since we worked together, PRIVATE!!!! No one surmised the affection we showed one another was nothing more than our normal kidding around…..little did they know! We knew as soon as we let the word out there would be all kinds of comments made….,good and bad…..That’s just the nature of people……..but we reached the point where we just couldn’t hold it in any longer. Jac was invited to a party at Cathy Hardwicks town house in NYC. She had a beautiful backyard where this picture was taken. Cathy was a wonderful designer and a wonderful person, and Jac worked for Cathy often. Cathy knew everyone, and we knew the party would be packed with lots of people we knew. It was the perfect place to make our announcement that we were an official couple. I must say it wasn’t a surprise to many…..so our little secret wasn’t such a secret after all! Everyone was happy for us, and I think you can tell by our faces we were very happy too! It was one of the best nights of our lives, and the official beginning of our lives together…………….As I recall we left the party early.

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“CHECK IT OUT”

Starting at midnight tonight and ending at midnight tomorrow night, I heard through the grapevine that everything is going to be on 5 ez pays with free shipping and handling. I believe this is for all jewelry and apparel……so it’s a really good buy for the jewelry and clothing that’s already on sale! Give it a look see!……..The Holidays are right around the corner…..Now that’s a scary thought!

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“OH SO LONG AGO”

………………….Oh so long ago……I know this was the late 70’s and I was in my 20s, because I have a beard! I was spending a weekend in the country in Pawling NY at a friend’s house. There were a few of us invited for the weekend. We ate, drank and played cards until the wee hours of the morning. I’m wearing a YSL wool battle jacket that I loved……Jeez, I certainly had a full head of hair. It was so thick I used to break the teeth right off of the combs! This beard dates back before I was with Jac. I had one on and off  for a few years……I loved my beard, but when I started to date Jac…off came the beard. She loved my full head of hair and was always brushing it off my face, but Jac wasn’t fond of facial hair. She had very delicate skin and said it scratched….off it came………Gotta make your lady happy!

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“TRUER WORDS WERE NEVER SPOKEN”

……………………On one beautiful sunny late spring day Jac and I too a ride into NYC. We planned to go to Cartier to have our watches cleaned. It was by appointment only. They were in the process of redoing their 5th Avenue store and had relocated to a temporary space further up 5th between 58th and 59th streets on 5th diagonally across from Bergdorf Goodman. We went in and were shown where we were to go. Jac went first and I went second. She said she wanted to go to look at the Bergdorf windows and would meet me there…..which I did……We went into the store and looked around, and then went for a leisurely lunch at a well know restaurant cross town. Afterwards we got the car and drove home. When we got home Jac said to me “I got you a surprise”……a surprise? Where, when and how did she get me a surprise without me seeing it??? Little did I know the reason she left me sitting in Cartier was to go and get me this surprise. At the time I thought it was a little strange that Jac would leave me to look at store windows…..never her thing, but Ok maybe she saw something she liked???? From her large black tote she pulls out this flat oblong thing wrapped in NEWSPAPER, and handed it to me….This newspaper wrapped package was getting more and more mysterious!……As I opened it I realized it was a metal sign, sort of like a license plate only larger. On this plate was a picture of the beautiful 50’s and 60’s model Suzy Parker…..,you can read what it said……..I laughed and laughed for so many reasons! One, because of the sign and message itself supposedly from the elegant Suzy Parker, and two because Jac on the spur of the moment saw it and went back to buy it!!! It was in a kiosk right in front of the Cartier store. There were many signs hanging, but Jac zeroed in on this one…..She said she had to get it for me just so I would remember “when people were acting like jackasses remember they can kiss yours”. Many people don’t realize Jac had a wicked sense of humor. The sign has hung in my studio from that day to this……The older I get the truer the sign becomes!!!! I have mamaged to rid myself of most jackasses, but you must always be on the alert…..Jackasses are everywhere! Jac knew exactly what she was talking about!!!!!

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