Dear Dear Friends

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…………………..My Dear Friends…………..I am so sorry to have to write to you with this heartbreaking news………..My Heart, my Soul, the Love of my Life, my Wonderful Beautiful Jac passed away on December 12th, at 3:50 in the afternoon. I don’t even know what to say, because I am completely shattered. I don’t know how I will, or if I can ever recover. I miss her so much, all I do is cry…..

I know in my heart she would want me to make this very brief, but she deserves so much more than a sentence or two…..so my darling please forgive.

We found out a year and a half ago, July 2016 that Jac had cancer. How could this be!? Jac never smoked and lived a completely healthy life style. Jac had heart problems. That was part of her family history, but not cancer. When we got this shocking and horrific news we went right to Boston Mass General where we know the head of Oncology, Dr. Alice Shaw. Jac was fast tracked, and after many tests and studies, Dr. Shaw started Jac on a drug, and miracle of miracles it worked, and it worked fast. Within 12 days Jac was  feeling well enough to come home. She improved quickly, and Dr Shaw told us they were the best scans she had ever seen for someone who was on this drug for so short a time. For a year all was well, Jac was back modeling at QVC, and everything seemed normal and right with the world…..She was able to do everything she had done before. She felt great. We were so relieved…..We even went this past June to our favorite Island, Anguilla, where this photo was taken, and we were so happy….Life was good and we were so thankful. She had thought she would never see Anguilla again, and here we were, basking in the beautiful sunset………..We were in heaven.

Little did we know. This past August Jac started to feel unwell, and we learned the pill had stopped working and the cancer had returned.

Jac was devoted to her Mother….her “Mommy”, and her Mommy was devoted to her. They were one heart and one soul. I have never, and will probably never see a mother and daughter as close as they were….and I’m sure they are in each others arms as I write this. Her Mom moved in with us and lived with us for many years. When Mom passed Jac kept her room exactly as it was, as if she had never left. It has been that way ever since…… Every morning and every evening Jac wrote to her Mom in her journals, sitting in her Mom’s room in a wicker chair, covered in a crocheted blanket of the American flag her mother made, looking through the window at the Long Island sound. Looking at the same view her Mom had looked at for all those years. It gave Jac peace. I too have started doing the same thing. I have never kept journals, but now I write to Jac each morning and every night, or when ever I feel she’s slipping away from me…It helps me to feel close to her…It helps me to write to her….to tell her stories. She loved when I told her stories……The last month of Jac’s life she kept saying to me, ” you must keep a routine, it’s important to keep a routine. You must work and keep busy or you will fall into a black deep abyss, and I don’t want that for you, please promise me this.” I promised, but it is so hard not to fall into the darkness…….. Much of my work was joyful because I knew she was there, and a big part of it. I have not been able to walk into my studio since she left me……She kept doing her Facebook page and insisted that I take photos of the newest styles on her so she could post them to you…….even when she was in terrible pain. I said, “Hon you don’t have to do this”, but as weak as she was she said, “I can’t disappoint my friends”. She truly loved you all very much…..So, for those who think, as I have read on the Linea Forum, that meaningful, heartfelt relationships can’t be made by communicating for over 17 years on Facebook or blogs or fashion shows on QVC, I say to them “you are so so wrong”, all you need is an “open giving, and loving  Heart”, and Jac gave, gave, gave, expecting nothing in return. For those who think that what we have both done is for business purposes, I say “shame on you.”………Jac and I both knew the love that was, and is shared between all of us was true, and real……………I will never address this again.

I kept her home for as long as I could and at Thanksgiving she asked if I we could have our Christmas early. I said “of course Hon, anything you want”……so I put all the decorations up, and everything looked beautiful for her. We had our Christmas…….When she finally had to leave our home, and went into the hospital, I never left her for one second……..She had hoped for snow. She wanted to see snow again, and on that Saturday, December 9th, God was good and gave her her wish. It was a beautiful snow fall, and she was so happy…….On the 11th when Jac, was getting weaker and weaker, she knew in her heart that all hope of recovery was gone. She looked at me, held my hand, and said “Lou, please tell me the truth”. I said to her “Hon, I have never lied to you, and I never will”. We held each other and she asked me all the hard questions……all the things I could never say on my own. After all of her questions were answered she told me ” I have loved you from the first time I saw you, it was love at first sight for me. Lou I never want to leave you…….but it’s time for me to go to my Mommy, I want to go home to Mommy”……I told her it was alright, and to give Mom a big hug and a kiss. Jac had told me I was her Mother’s angel…..I was the only one her Mom trusted to take care of her precious baby…………………Jac passed away in a beautiful room with all of the things she wanted with her. She had no pain. It was peaceful and serene, and I held her close. I knew she was at last in her Mommy’s loving arms.

I sat in her Mom’s room after Jac passed and asked Jac for guidance….The days were going by and I hadn’t said a word. I knew everyone was so concerned and worried for us……so I talked to Jac and WE made the decision to wait until after Christmas to let everyone know…We did  not want to make it a sad day for anyone. Please forgive me if my delay in posting this has caused anyone pain. I never meant to hurt anyone by my silence. When is it the right time to have to say these words?……I still can’t believe I’m writing them.

One day Jac and I will be together again. I know this for sure…….I know I will miss her and want her with me every moment of the life I have left…..I must believe that she is beside me and I’m always looking for her messages and signs…..Jac and I had many adventures together and took many journeys……Our physical journey has now ended, but I know in my heart our spiritual journey has just begun……….Even so…..It is so terribly hard.

I want to thank all those who knew what was happening for the last year and a half and kept our wish not to let anyone know. I want to thank my friends at QVC for being my advocate through this horrible period of time, and for the help and love they provided. I want to thank Dr. Alice Shaw and Dr. Jessica Lin at Boston Mass General for giving Jac that precious year of feeling “normal” and healthy again. I especially want to thank Dr. Caleb Moore, our doctor here in Greenwich, for being at our home at a moments notice, and for taking charge of Jac’s care when he knew I could no longer give her the care she needed. Mostly, I want to thank my family and her closest friends, who she loved so much, and were there for her at the end. They made it possible for Jac to leave this world surrounded by their love. I will be forever grateful….. Jac was an extremely private person. We didn’t have many friends….out of choice……. All we ever wanted or needed was each other, our babies, and our home by the sea. We would call our home…..”Our separate peace”, where nothing could disturb or touch us or harm us…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….

This post is meant for YOU and YOU alone. I know Jac would think I have already said too much. She always said I talked too much, but I could go on and on taking about the love of my life……..Please do NOT re-post this message that I’m sending to you on any other social media……Not on the QVC boards or Facebook. I know that this news will spread quickly, but I beg you to keep our privacy the best you can, and if you must speak, speak of the Love you have for Jac.

I, with all of my heart, and I know with all of Jac’s heart, want to thank all of you who have become Dear Dear Friends over these passed years. Your concern, caring and love shines though, and I know I will need all of you more than ever.

I feel there is a hole in my chest where my heart used to be. A terrible emptiness that will never go away, but I also know my heart must still be there , because it’s full of love for my Jac…….Before Jac came into my life I was a very lonely person. I had many many friends, but I still felt this terrible loneliness…………Jac taught me what love was all about, and it was Jac who taught me how to love…………………………………There will never be another like her……………….not for me……………..not ever………..My only solace is that we will be together again.

This Post Has 188 Comments

  1. designista

    We cry with you, knowing that there are no words of condolence that can ease your pain. In sharing these profoundly personal thoughts and memories with us, you have taken a big step away from the abyss. This was an exceedingly painful thing to write, but healing. Jac would be so very proud of you, knowing that your healing was more important than privacy at this point. Your writing and stories that you have shared with us, have created a deep bond that has grown over many years. I wonder if that wasn’t in the master plan of things. You have a huge support group sharing your pain and sorrow, but urging you on as Jac would have wanted.
    Please keep on writing, it soothes the soul.

  2. Rusty

    Louis,

    I will pray for you everyday. Jac was a classy & wonderful woman. You showed such love for each other. Your love will never die. She’s surrounded by pure love. Please take care of yourself, that’s what Jac would want.

    Love sent,
    Rusty

  3. Martha Gage Elton

    Dear Louis, What an eloquent message about your beautiful, sweet Jac. I felt I knew her well through Facebook. My heart goes out to you. I will pray that time will help heal the sharpest of the pain of loss. She had a gorgeous home with you surrounded by your love and that of her mother. We will all miss her so much. Please gather your courage for Jac’s sake and continue making your lovely clothes in her memory. Love to the Scotties as well as to you.

  4. Sammy from TX

    Dear Louis,

    I want you to know that I have prayed for your solace in Christ at this time. Also, I have prayed for all those that are close to you and Jac. I know this is very hard for you and I am so sorry that you must bear this pain. Your words here about Jac were so beautiful and I see how much you love her. Once again I apologize for this loss and I pray you may heal promptly.

    Sincerely,

    Samantha Pryor

  5. Stacy

    You will be in my thoughts Louis. Hope each days brings you more peace.

  6. Linda

    So saddened by this news. You were both such a joy to watch together. You will feel her spirit close by and try to do as she asked…. keep up the routine. She knew best. Thank you for sharing this personal and private news. May God bless.

  7. Parisa Javidi

    Louis, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am heartbroken for you. She was an angel. Much love & prayers for you to have strength. God Bless.

  8. Carol in FL

    Dear Louis,

    The words seem inadequate to express my sorrow for your loss. Know that you will continue to be kept in my thoughts and prayers. Jac will be missed by many, but during her time in this world she definitely made it a better place. Love to you and many blessings.

    Carol

  9. Sandy

    It is with tears flowing that I have read your news,selfishly because I lost my husband on December 11th. We had a similar relationship to the one you describe with Jac. It is hard to go on every day but we have to believe that we will survive because they would want us to. I will keep you in my prayers also.

  10. Rita Conley

    My most heart felt sympathies to you on your profound loss. I so enjoyed ” knowing ” Jac and your partnership and happiness.
    May your years of memories sustain you and comfort you!

  11. Nedra

    May she rest in peace, and may her memory and the love of friends and family sustain you at this difficult time. In her honor, and in recognition of your shared loved for “the girls,” I have made a donation to the SPCA.

  12. Diane Coyle

    Dear Louis, I’m not good with words but I want you to know that you have my heartfelt condolences. I am shocked and saddened to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Diane

  13. Barbara In Orlando (now in Colorado!

    My heart breaks for you Louis! We have lost a lovely face of a lovely soul! You spelled out your love story so beautifully! Jac deserved your eloquent words bathed in love! You both kept a brave face for so long and now it’s time to grieve while celebrating the very special bond that made you both so beautiful together! God bless you both and RIP Jac! 🙏. Louis there will be those moments when you feel a touch on the shoulder or something brushing by you and that will be Jac! She’ll be there always! Much love Louis!

  14. Kathleen

    Louis what a beautiful tribute for a beautiful lady. My heart is broken for you. I have missed seeing Jac in the past few months on your shows on QVC. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. She will be missed by us all.

  15. Lori W

    My sincerest sympathy for the loss of your beautiful precious Jac. Your love is one that will endure on any plane of existence. Louis your tribute to her is one of beauty and grace. What a beautiful and wonderful person she was and how fortunate God brought you together. Thank you for sharing this with us. I pray for God’s peace and may the memories in your heart help bring you comfort. Blessings…

  16. Joan

    Dear Louis, Let me start by saying how very sorry I am to hear about Jac. I am not good with words and am clumsy at expressing my feelings but I wanted you to know this. While my lifestyle was not one that involved travel abroad, dinner parties, and cocktail dresses, I always made it a point to watch your shows, or DVR them if I couldn’t. I never felt like I was watching a “salesman” tying to sell us clothes, but rather bringing us what seemed at times to be sorely missed in the modern world. Classic, elegance, quiet reserve. I loved watching you and Jac interact with each other, the hosts and the models. It was inspiring to me in ways you will never know,

    So while I am yet but a stranger, please know that you and Jac were a big part of our lives and 2 of the really “good” people this world has to offer. When you are ready to continue your life in your own time and own way, know that your friends will welcome you back with open arms, Take care dear man and God Bless.

  17. Lenora

    Dear Louis, If I had the words that would erase your grief and bring you comfort, I would say them now. I am so very sorry you’ve lost the love of your life. Please take comfort in the fact that you did everything for her, were there with her every minute, providing the love and care any of us would wish we could have.

  18. nyc1

    Your heart, your thoughts and your life will continue to be filled with Jac. We somehow find a way to move forward, we find the energy, the courage, the will … fueled by the one we loved so deeply but have lost. Continue to speak to Jac, laugh with her and remember all those things she and you loved. Embrace all that she meant to you and move forward with her in all that you do. She will never leave you. You are one forever. My sincere wishes that strength comes to you and encourages you. Allow yourself to slip, but then try to continue forward with life now not as it was, but still with your darling Jac. Hugs to you Louis.

  19. Marcia Lee

    Dear Louis,

    Thank you for sharing this with us. We have been with you and Jac through the years, and will be here for you still, always and forever!

    Marcia

  20. Connie Francis-Cioffi and John Cioffi

    Jac epitomized grace, beauty and elegance. We’re so very sorry for her loss and heartbroken for you Louis. Thank you for sharing this information and your personal memories with us, it’s a beautiful tribute to Jac and allows us to feel closer to you both at this very sad time. No doubt Jac would be humbled to know how many people she has touched throughout the years with her thoughtfulness, love and quiet yet powerful presence.

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Jac.
    Love,
    Connie & John

  21. Pamela

    Dear Louis. So very sorry. Thank You for sharing with us in a most eloquent way. Jac was very blessed to have had your love and devotion for so long, and you hers. We don’t begin to know why God plans as he does, but at least we know He holds her,pain-free, along with her mom. I pray that you may eventually find some solace in that. Also in knowing that you have family and lots of friends and fans who still want you…if and when uou are ready. Lots of love to you.

  22. Fairfax

    My deepest sympathy and love. God promises us that who believes will have everlasting life. You will be together again.

  23. Cynthia

    Dear Louis
    I am so sorry to hear your sad news. Please know you have my deepest sympathy. She was such a lovely lady. It was a pleasure to read her posts to us and watch your devotion to each other over these past years. She was a great lady and to honor her you must go on because that’s what she would want. You will be able to feel her love for you always.

    Take care and know your Linea lady’s will always be here for you.

  24. Tammy

    Louis,

    Thank you for sharing Jac with all of us. We were blessed to witness your love and caring for each other over the years. She is loved, missed and will always be remembered.

    God bless and sending healing hugs to you.

  25. Paula Meek

    I am so sorry for your loss of your Jac. Your tribute to her is so loving and beautiful that I feel your pain and cry with you. I will remember you in my prayers that you will be able to go forward and continue to create beauty. With heartfelt sympathy. Paula

  26. TourEiffel

    Oh, Louis, my heart breaks for you.

    Jac was truly beautiful, inside and out. I love the photos of your spring garden after she had planted pansies. I love how she cared for your health by limiting your hot dog consumption to once per year. I love how she modeled your beautiful clothes with such grace and flair. God has a plan for all of us, but the plan is hard to understand when healthy people who eat well and exercise, like Jac, get cancer and die. You and Jac had a deep, meaningful love for one another, a once in a lifetime love, which was evident to everyone. God bless you during this difficult time. I pray for your peace.

    With much love,
    Ann / TourEiffel

  27. Cindy B

    Dear Louis,

    My heart is truly broken for you. You are in my prayers for comfort and healing for your indescribable loss. I cannot even imagine how hard it was to write about your beautiful wife and what you two have been going through.
    Please take care of yourself, above all else, and know that there are many so many who deeply care about you, and want to be there for you in your time of need.

    Sincerely,

    Cindy from California

  28. Pam

    Dear Louis,

    I am heartbroken for you. What I have just read brought tears to my eyes. The love that you and Jac shared was evident whenever I saw you together on air. May beautiful Jac rest in peace. I pray that your memories of happy times with her will help and comfort you as the days go by. Please take care.

    Pam

  29. Linda in AZ

    Dear Louis,
    There are no words to express the sadness and empathy I feel for your loss. My heart breaks, and I have tears in my eyes. You are in my prayers, for God’s comfort and peace.
    Linda

  30. Susan S.

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. I was always very impressed with Jac when she modeled your clothing. She always looked so chic. She’s right, you know. You have to keep a routine. Even if it feels like you’re a machine and just going through the paces, keep it up and one day you will begin to feel alive again. It takes time. A long time. Don’t expect too much from yourself too soon. She was so brave and so unselfish to be thinking of you and to be worried about what you would do when she was gone. That speaks volumes as to what kind of a person she was. You were very lucky to have her and she was very lucky to have you too. I hope that you take care of yourself.

  31. Anne in Dallas

    Louis, My heart breaks and my tears flow for you. You are in my prayers.

  32. Suellen

    We’re all keeping you in our hearts and prayers as you honor your beloved Jac and give thanks for the many gifts and blessings of her life. We love you both.

  33. DivaMum

    My heart aches for you. May you find peace in the memories of your True Love. Hugs to you.

  34. Martha Gage Elton

    Dear Louis,
    I had NO idea that Jac was so ill, and thought it was Lyme Disease. I am tearful right now and love that you and Jac were so in love and such wonderful partners. My heart goes out to you! What a loss. I hope that you have people nearby to help you through this and that will help you with your Scotties.
    Very sincerely, Martha Gage Elton

  35. makp

    So very sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my prayers.

  36. queendiva

    Dearest Louis,
    My heart truly breaks for the loss of your most beloved Jac. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.
    Yours was the rarest and most beautiful of love stories. Your love radiated through the screen with every appearance on QVC. Hers was a beauty, grace and elegance unmatched.
    I hope that the support and friendships you both nurtured with your Linea Ladies will bring you some measure of comfort and support through these most difficult days. I hope you will feel the many prayers said for her peace and your strength. You gave your wife the most precious gift: a lifetime of a most loving and devoted husband.
    God Bless you both.

  37. WNYGAL/APRIL

    Dear Louis,
    My deepest sympathy for the tragic loss of your beautiful wife and best friend. It was always a joy to watch the two of you working together; you were so clearly a team, with Jac so perfectly lovely in your designs, so clearly your muse and help mate, and always, always it was so apparent how much you loved each other. Your anguished story of her decline this past 18 mo. really hit me hard as my own beloved mother declined into the abyss of Alzheimers during the same time, and succumbed this past summer, so I, too, have been living in the fog of sadness and grief this past year. You will never get over Jac’s going, but eventually, I pray for you, the pain will become less like a hole in your heart, and she will be back in that place where you now think your heart has flown from. God bless and take care of you.
    All best wishes, April

  38. Victoria1

    Louis,
    You and Jac found each other… of all the people on earth, you two fell in love and it lasted Jac’s lifetime and beyond! Your work together and loving each other this many years is a special special gift.
    you will find your way to survive this loss. You will have to adjust to her being with you, but not beside you.
    Jac will be thrilled to have her mother greet her and together they will be your angels.
    There is no way this will not hurt, but Jac will help you find the path back.
    Treat your self well and take your time.
    She was and is a beauty!
    Prayers for your heart pain
    Victoria

  39. Marta G

    Dear Louis,

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your message speaks to your love for each other and that will never end. Keep that love as close to your heart as you can. Keep writing to her and telling her your stories, I know one day you will cry less and smile more. When that happens Jac will be smiling with you.

  40. Andrea

    You took such good care of her. I remember one show when she didn’t come out to model with the other models and you were so concerned about her. I thought ‘that is one lucky woman.’

    You took such good care of her.

    These short dark days are made for the heartbroken. I hope eventually the sun will come out and when you walk on the beach you will know she is at your side.

    My deepest sympathies,
    Andrea

  41. Linda A

    A beautiful tribute to a beautiful women.
    God bless you

  42. Chris

    Dear Louis,
    Such a beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul by a loving husband.
    God bless…

  43. NAT

    I am sorry that you have had to deliver such sad news in a time of year which should be nothing but cheerful and happy. We loved your Jac albeit we did not personally know her as she radiated warmth and class, and what a model! Of course, our words can never equal the lovely memories you have of her. We have been concerned, as you know, and thank you for knowing that we care enough that you could, in time, share.

  44. Linda (lrmuffin)

    i am so sorry . I will keep you and Jac in my prayers.

  45. Teri

    So glad to hear from you and so sad to hear your absence was due Jac’s passing. You are so eloquent and I am stumbling to write a few words that express sadness, empathy, and friendship. From this viewer’s perspective Jac appeared a wonderful combination of elegance snd class with a hint of mischief in the way she teased you. Grief changes over time from tears to smiles of remembrance but it travels at its own speed. One footstep at a time. Blessings to you for peace. Take care of yourself.

  46. Angela

    To Our Dear Louis,

    Please know that we are all sending positive energy, kind thoughts and prayers your way.

    The darkness and loneliness that you are feeling now will not last forever. You WILL smile again – I promise!
    It will take some time for you to process this tremendous loss, but you will get through this. One day, one hour at a time you will get through this.

    Please heed Jac’s wish for you to keep busy and moving forward in life. She knew you so well and would not want you to ruminate and remain inactive and isolated. HONOR her life and legacy by carrying on your work and getting up each day with goals to reach and lives to touch. This is how you keep her memory alive. Allow yourself a good cry, but know that each day your heart will get a bit lighter.

    We are here for you, Louis, and you don’t have to face this alone.

    We love you!

  47. Alicia

    Thank you for your sad message. I wish I could express my feelings as well as you did.
    Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.. please take care.

  48. breee

    Dear Louis,
    I am sorry for your loss. You were blessed to have Jac in your life for so many years and created so many memories to cherish. May God give your strength during this time.

  49. Yvonne Shafer

    We WILL be there for you. In any form you need. FB friendships are real and good. Prayers and warm loving hugs coming your way.

  50. Peggy

    In shock and so sad. I am so sorry and send my deepest sympathies. You have to keep going for the fur babies. I am sure they are so sad too and will be a great comfort.

    Peggy

  51. Grace

    Dearest Louis,

    My heart breaks for you. I’m so very sorry to hear this devastating news. Your tribute to your beloved Jac was beautiful and your deep love for her inspiring. We were so fortunate to get to know her through her Facebook posts and found her to be generous, kind and open-hearted. She was such a great storyteller and I always looked forward to yet another installment of adventures from her modeling years. What a wonderful life she had with you. Jac is gone much too soon, but leaves an extraordinary legacy. We will all miss her. My deepest condolences and sincere affection to you at this very sad time. Grace

  52. Jackie

    The picture you posted of Jac is how I will always remember her -beautiful, graceful, and lovely. Thank you for sharing it with us. I read your news – several times – with tears. Bravo for all your family and friends who honored your wishes of respecting your privacy and letting the two of you have as much Louis and Jac time as possible, making every moment alone count. That is a true testament to the respect they have for you. I am heartbroken you had to experience this loss and will pray for your comfort.

  53. Barbara

    Louis,

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself and know that you are loved.

    In peace and comfort,

    Barbara

  54. InStitches49

    Thank you for these words even though they were hard for you to write and hard for those who have felt such a kinship with you and Jac for many years to read. Like many others I sensed something was amiss but hoped and prayed I was wrong. The love you shared with her and she with you was evident in your appearances on QVC and we will all miss seeing her model your fashions. But most of all we will simply miss her for being the lovely, graceful, classy lady she was. You are in our thoughts and prayers as you go through the weeks ahead. Remember her advice and take it.

  55. Diane

    May you be comforted by the love of friends, family, and your fans. I’ve watched you for years and your love for each other was so evident to all, my heart breaks for you.

    God Bless You.

  56. Ruth

    Dear Louis,
    I am deeply saddened to hear this tragic news that Jac has passed. My heart is very heavy and tears are flowing as I process your letter. Jac was so lovely and a truly gracious lady. It was obvious that your relationship was filled with tenderness, mutual respect and so much love. It was an inspiration to behold.
    I feel great empathy for you and what you’re going through. I began to pray for you and Jac when you weren’t on the 12/12 QVC show. I felt that something major must be happening. I will continue to pray that God will show you extra measures of His love, comfort and peace and I will trust that He will be faithful to you through this very difficult time.
    Please receive this note with the love and respect that accompanies it.
    Sincerely,
    Ruth

  57. Jana/RollrSkatr

    Dear Louis, I’m so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful memorial to the love of your life – you have such a wonderful way with words and my heart is breaking for you. I’ve only had the pleasure of seeing you and your beautiful Jac for a few years on QVC and she always was so elegant and such a gorgeous lady! Please remember her words and stay with your routine – it’s so hard to do, but I know you can do it. Before my mom passed away she said just take life minute by minute and sometimes you have to take it second by second. I have found these words to be oh so true. There is no time limit for grief and I wish you peace.

  58. MadameDuFiffers

    I’m so sorry, Louis. May the God LORD be with you. {{{hug}}}
    Madame

  59. Celtie

    Louis,

    Please accept by deepest sympathies and know that I have earnestly prayed for you over the past few weeks as i was sure your “absence” was not positive. I will continue to keep you in my prayers as you continue in this journey. May God grant you peace and comfort.

  60. Lyn Johnson

    I read your loving tribute to dear Jac, and tears flowed down my cheeks. I knew something had happened when we didn’t hear anything from you or Jac around Christmastime. My heart goes out to you. I know you loved Jac so much, and she loved you. We hold you in our hearts and will be praying for you.

  61. Jamie

    Louis,

    If you love your wife as much as you say you do, you must listen to what she said. Do not allow yourself to be isolated. She knew what she was talking about. She knew you, Louis.

    You have to be like Joan Rivers. Joan could have never went out in public again after Edgar’s death – but she did not allow that for herself. I wish she was around to give you the support you need AND a gentle kick in the pants.

    Do not let yourself slip away. This is not what you deserve. You were strong for your wife. Now be strong for yourself.

    You can do it.

  62. Jen

    Dear Louis, I read your beautiful tribute to Jac, and like so many, I am truely heartbroken. I have been a qvc shopper for over 25 yrs. Everytime I watched Jac, I was struck by her beauty and always thought she was a very classy lady. I have suffered tragedy in my own family and I know what it is like to grieve for someone you love so much. As you go through the stages of grief, depend on others as much as you can and keep your memories of her close to your heart. Lean on us and know that we will all be thinking of you and Jac. All my love from Ohio.

  63. Rebecca

    Dearest Louis – I am so very, very sorry and can only offer you my most sincere sympathy along with the hope and prayers of peace for you. I pray your memories and your eternal love for each other shine bright in your darkest hours and bring you some comfort in your faith that you will be together again. Keeping you in my prayers, may God hold you close.

  64. Connie

    My sincere sympathy for your loss. I am going through a similar situation with my husband now. People say that I’m so strong, when I am crumbling inside. I know I’ll never be the same, but must go on. I read somewhere the words – Do not morn that which is lost, instead rejoice that you had it. Some days I refer to those words again and again……..

  65. Sybil A.

    Dear Louis,

    So very sorry to hear this news. Thank you for sharing with us. What a truly beautiful spirit she is. I am in tears, please stay with the routine and take care.

    Sybil

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